I don’t give much dating advice, but questions regularly come up from readers. So I thought I should share a little something I use on my first dates to initiate playful touching if we’re both vibing each other.
If you don’t already know, initiating touch between you and your date is super important on a first date. It shows your interest and will keep you out of the dreaded friend zone.
I came across this by accident. I was reading an article online, and I mentioned this on a date once and it worked beautifully!
I’ve since used it many times and never had it not work out.
Anyway, I made a short video which explains it all.
jake says
Thanks Jason , That video was clean informative and fun. I guess if the girl pulls her hand away quikly better move slow or go home and try again next time !
John says
Interesting concept, however I’ve observed that most women think we’re all hounds with an obvious agenda. This video was certainly food for thought.
Thanks for putting it out there
jim says
I would have been cool if after you had held her hand, she would have grabbed you and laid a beautiful sexy kiss on your lips
thanks,
Leo Dyer says
That was cool , very cool Jason !!
M R says
Hi,
I’ m female ( by way of internet u-tube etc.) and trying to understand men better I came across your stuff. It all correct … but here’s the thing… You seem to really like women. ( meaning respectful and attentive) And I think that is why everything you do and say work well. These are all great tips for guys that like women. Many men are just aggressive and have expectations and become rude…. women just need time to believe you like them. After a certain age, all of us have been “wronged” on occasions. But this is powerful stuff… don’t go out there to hurt or use anyone…. just sayin”
Kevin says
Awesome tips Jason, I brought all your videos and they are working!!!! The only thing I would add is that you forgot to introduce your model in the video. 🙂 She’s a cutie pants!!
Jim S says
I really think that is a great and innocent way to get the comfortable level up. Jason I have been seeing a younger woman on and off for 5 years. We are really great when we are together and when we start seeing each other, we seem to always want to be together much more. Its a bit complicated why we stop spending time together. It goes in cycles. Mostly when her parents come to visit for months at a time and stays at her house. Anyway we are back on a roll again seeing each other 3 to 5 times a week. She always wanted to have sex with me and I refrained cause I think I have ED and would be crushed if I cant get a really strong rocket. Now we don’t make out like we used too. Have I really screwed up this relationship?? What can I do to get us back on track beside trying this video? She is 35 and I am 62, She has a kid and wants another one, which I would be happy to oblige !! Thanks