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Getting a woman into “state” so that she can orgasm is sometimes the most elusive part of getting her over the edge to let go and have a full body orgasm.
There’s a part of the brain responsible for impulse control, it’s called the Dorsolateral Prefrontal Cortex. This is the part of your brain that keeps you “in control”. When it comes to giving women orgasms she needs to learn how to be “out of control” in order to let go and have an orgasm. Hence, the “Art of not giving a f*ck” means to practice getting to an uninhibited state. There are many ways you can help your woman get to this state.
You need to understand that in order to make her comfortable letting go to orgasm with you she must feel SAFE. She must trust and respect you and feel comfortable letting go.
Beyond safety, you need to understand how to pump up her desire and make her feel sexy. As a guy, when you see her naked you get turned on instantly like a light switch. Women are different in that desire is more contextual, thus taking more “influence” to get dialed up. That’s why things like storyline, foreplay, anticipation, dominance, and the context of the situation effect her desire at any given moment.
Make sure you watch the video above, and leave a comment below to let me know your thoughts.
Talk Soon,
Jason Julius
P.S. The state you or your partner go into during sex effects how you experience orgasms. Understanding “state” is also important for men, as understanding how it effects male orgasm can keep you in control, allowing you to last longer during sex. I cover this in detail and a lot more in my new program Extreme Stamina.
Jeff says
You are exactly right about everything you say. I hear this over and over from women I talk to. All the men they meet just want sex in the “Wham, Bam, thank you Ma’am” fashion, and all their emotional buildup, romance etc. is disregarded. To me at least that is like comparing a McDonalds cheeseburger to a Thanksgiving dinner. I know which I would rather have, and it really is worth the wait.
Jonathan says
I’m very happy with the extra knowledge I’ve gotten from your Female Orgasm Blueprint series, and have been applying it with my long-term girlfriend/finace’…I’ve never had an issue with getting her to orgasm, but I always felt I wanted to do more, and we recently achieved her first squirting orgasm, and it was a beautiful thing. Thank you for sharing your insights, and we’re both grateful for the experiences.
stephanie says
What is Shannon talking about with the grapeseed oil and the prune? I’m very interested to know! You look even more handsome, if that’s possible, with the new hairstyle!
OOPS! Please take my last name off the email that I sent to you. My mistake.
Sally says
Thanks Jason, love the new video. Thanks so much for all your wonderful information including the female orgasm blueprint. My sex life is now better than it has ever been and I feel now that I can really let go and have awesome orgasms pretty much every time we have sex. Plus I now want to more than ever before. wish I had discovered all this years ago. Also I love your new look, the new haircut is fab.
Lillian rokosh says
Yes I agree with sally about the new hair cut you have, it makes you hot looking!
Shannon says
The grape seed oil has been a hit with the prune. We are still aiming for the all mighty squirt but I think she is trying to hard to push it out so gapped illy next time I’m home and we go on holidays we will try this relaxed state. Thanks for all the tips jason
Aleks says
Jason,
This is sooo 100% TRUE! Every word you said was making so much sense! I almost got a bit emotional there while watching your video, because I saw the transition of my girlfriends mind going from insecurity, thinking about if she is doing it right or thinking about losing control into a very sexy girl that was taking initiative with some moves that made me crazy. She was showing me how much she was liking it that I was telling her how amazing she felt when we were doing it and after every sentence I said that involved in how good she felt/looked/was doing it, she was breathing more heavily, she was moving her hips more and she was moving her body more and more so she could feel me more inside of her! It was so epic! It was really turning me and her on soo much. Luckily I purchased your Extreme Stamina stuff and was able to last JUST long enough to come at the same time as she did! Incredible! After that time, she was more open in telling me her fantasies and what made her turned on. I’ve never seen my girlfriend being so open to me about this stuff! She usually doesn’t want to talk about it, because it made her feel uncomfortable, but now she doesn’t care about all the things that made her uncomfortable about it! As if she FINALLY awakened and dropped all of her inhibitions/insecurities/negative thoughts!
I’m soo happy ! Seeing her talking to me without any thoughts of if she is talking about something she shouldn’t to me! BUT, before she opened up to me she said. “I want to do some things with you, BUT…only if you don’t make jokes or fun about it”. I said no ofcourse I won’t make fun of it! The idea alone of doing these things with you turn me on so much! She smiled and after that she really opened up to me like never before.
Having experienced these things makes me see how much everything what you said in the video was true. Thank you so much Jason! I’m expecting to see the ultimate TRUTH about how to make Love to a woman in the right way in The sex bible of the universe made by you 🙂
Kind regards,
Aleks
Steve says
Jason,
Fully agree. My lover and I are separated by time and distance and when we have the opportunity to engage in some mind blowing sex, I take the story teller roll and flood her with erotic snippets of what we are going to do when we get together and she loves the foreplay of this. It puts her in a highly erotic state and even when we are engaged in sex she is so turned on by my description from her cumming in the sun on a beach, making out with two men or how I am planning to slap her pussy. When that happens, including, the touch component she has a wicked orgasm and then a series of them. So I concur.
Good information and right on the button. The video is dark and some extra lighting would be good. Send more
Steve
Charlotte says
This is, oh so true for me! In my life there has only been one guy that put the time and effort being stubborn enough to take me to the level that i had an orgasm. It took 5 times (each time 30-40 minutes) before he succeeded. It was up to one week inbetween every time we met, but we worked together. At work we teased eachother mentally, with me propably exiting him more than the opposite =P But he assured me of him getting me there(orgasm) no matter what, charishing me with both my personality and my looks. He even said that me having to blow him, was not so important, or even “can do without it, because i dont like it so much”. This last thing he told me only because i let my heart out and told him “i’d rather not do it” or “I’m sensitive to smells” or something like it….. So he told me he didn’t like it. But as a woman it takes some time to really trust a mans word regarding things in bed that are common… All this was just to take the “blowing him” and “giving back” thoughts out of my brain, VERY CLEVER INDEED! The important thing is: He knew i was going to do it when he got to the point of giving me an orgasm time after time. So he told this tiny lie, only for the reason of my brain getting in my way of my wellbeing. After our “bed relationship” had ended i asked him ” do you really not like it?” and if it really was true… He replied with a big confident smile on his face: “I actually love it, but i knew i would’ve gotten it soon enough”
Btw: After the fifth time he gave me an orgasm, he made me orgasm maybee 2-3 or even 4 times before and inbetween we had sex. Only one time i remember i had a gap in time that i can not recall. We had sex and it felt almost too good to be true…but then he stopped suddenly…looks up with a big smile on his face…and say: “you moaned!” (which never ever had happened to me before) That was propably only 2-4 seconds, but after the sex he reminded me again and i fell into tears. I was so lucky and so happy to have met him and have lived my life as in “i’m that woman that never will ba able to orgasm” since no other man before had made it this far. This was 2 years ago and I’m longing for the time to meet a man that have this knowledge in real life.
Thank you Julius for the upcoming bible for men out there.
Love//Charlotte
Ted says
Nice information as always. I have learned a lot of you videos, but females are so different(some is really easy to give orgasm and some don’t, I think it’s the mental thing I havent learn completley jet.
You said something about new video equpiment.
Audio: 10
Video: 8 (a lite dark video, think some light in the forground could help)
dennis hallberg says
i think you know what you are talking about..my wife needs to know that she is loved and appreciated by me before she can orgasm.she has always said that men need sex and wowan need love.