One of the most common instances men run into when attempting to give their woman a full body squirting orgasm, is a sudden objection from her conscious mind. You know what I mean… You’re using techniques to explicitly send a flood of pleasure to your woman’s “sensitive spots”, and she loves how it feels. Then out of nowhere, she tells you to stop! There’s no fireworks, no sudden splash of ecstasy, no explosion of pleasure pulsing through her body causing her to shake uncontrollably. Nope, instead of giving into the intense sensation and letting go to orgasm, she abruptly interrupts her OWN chance to orgasm!
Why on earth would she deny her gift of primal pleasure? Well actually there could be a lot of reasons. Listen guys, when she gets to the edge, and is about to have a full body orgasm, the sensation can be overwhelming or down right scary in her mind. Especially if she’s never had a Vaginal Orgasm before. Her conscious mind might throw dozens of objections her way, and the notion of pushing forward or letting go could be scary in that moment.
The conscious mind doesn’t have a big role in such a primal act, however it will easily play the role as the Saboteur during sex if left unchecked. The conscious mind has been sorting out and solving problems all day long… Why not throw in some more worries when the pleasure party begins too? After all, that’s how we operate throughout 99% of the rest of our day to keep in control of our actions.
However, during sexual arousal the conscious mind needs to step aside. She needs to have a clear mind, and be absolutely present in order to become “out of control” and orgasm. That means no conscious objections telling her to pull back with nonsense thoughts of “What if I pee on him?” “Will I create a mess?” “Will he judge me?” “Am I being too naughty?” and the list could go on forever.
In our role as men, we can’t exactly jump inside her mind and control what she’s thinking. However, we can influence the “State” she goes into before and during our attempt to use friction on her sweet spots. This is where understanding the full picture of how her body and mind need to come together to orgasm is so important.
One way to illustrate this is using the concept of Threshold Consciousness. Threshold Consciousness is the mental state of someone who is moving towards sleep or wakefulness but has not yet completed the transition. In other words, it’s the state of dozing off to sleep, or just waking up. During this state the mind is completely relaxed, and there is very little conscious thought going on. This State is very similar to the state women go into when they have an orgasm.
What if you got her to this state and never really let her get out of it? You can then bypass her conscious objections all together and voila… Orgasm Magic! Her body will do what it naturally wants to do, which is let go and have a full body orgasm. She can leave the objections at the door, no matter what the cause. So what are some ways to do this?
Deep Massage Blended Into Stimulation: This is by far one of the easiest ways to do this. You’ve maybe heard me talk about using Massage to get her to Orgasmic State. That is because it allows her mind to become deeply relaxed. Some guys ask, “What if she starts to fall asleep?” My rely is: “GOOD!” When she starts to doze off from the massage, her mind is becoming quiet. Don’t let her fall completely asleep, but when she gets to the transition just before falling asleep, that’s the sweet spot. Now it’s time to turn Massage, into Arousal while keeping her body and mind in the same relaxed state. If you do it right, you’ll blend the massage into sexual escalation, then into vaginal stimulation in a fluid way as to not even give her mind the chance to start it’s typical chatter. If it ends with her body shaking, the bed wet, and her looking you in the eyes in amazement then you’ve done your job.
Wake Up Sex: Roll over in the morning and start by giving her a passionate wake up kiss. Assuming you’re not waking her up in the middle of the night, and she’s not late to get up for work, she should welcome the gesture. Transition that kiss into touching, and next into arousal. The basic idea here is to wake her up aroused and transition into stimulating her G Spot or A Spot before her conscious mind ever really gets the chance to start “thinking”. When she starts out in this “State” she’ll easily be able to orgasm. If you do it right she’ll go from “Wake Up Kiss” to “Oh my god, that was incredible, what did you do to me?” without knowing what hit her.
Try it out, and let me know what you think. Remember, the key is to help her get out of her own way so that she doesn’t have to “think” at all!
Talk Soon,
Jason Julius
Cassy says
Do you think this threshold squirting can be used as a bad thing? Mind control. Leading into depression? I have been dating this guy for 3 years now and seems since he has done this to me I have been depressed. Please email me in case I can’t find this site again.
Fred says
If it sounds too good to be true, it’s probably not true. Let me tell you that’s not the case with Jason’s blueprint. This little blog is only the tip of the iceberg, and I’d recommend that any one in a relationship with a woman, and that relationship is in a place where you REALLY want to take it to the next level (wherever that is – just dating but want to make it more serious, marriage, or already married but need to kick it back into high sexual gear), then you need to get his blueprint to the female orgasm!
I’ve never been one to promote anything, but I will say that what he has outlined works and works just as he says it does! My wife is a plus size 12, southern baptist, church going woman, but after using Jason’s techniques with her, she comes to me like Beyonce & Lil Kim and I love it! After over 20 years of marriage and occasionally hitting the right spot, I now know exactly where ALL the spots are which has not only boosted my self esteem, but also brought out the “inner-freak” in my wife, the same woman I took to the senior prom back before the turn of the century. And I can’t thank him enough for taking the time to break it all down.
Trust me, I am not a paid spokesman for his product. I’m just a guy who found his blueprint after searching the Internet for ways to spark up my sex life and found something that added way more than a spark. When your significant other experiences one of these pleasurable moments with you, it fires off like a thermonuclear bomb in her libido! And when she needs a fix, she’ll come right out of the shower and jump right on you! We’ve been married for a long time and are both approaching 50, but we go at it like we’re back in our 20s (better because I know where and how to touch her) and I love it! The kids are all gone off to college & beyond, leaving the two of us to travel having great sex all over the world. She never liked to travel before this, but Jason we’re taking your blueprint to Bora Bora next summer to celebrate our 50th birthday! Thank you man!
Henry Brooks says
I’d like to receive the physical DVD’s of the course Female Orgasm Blueprint instead of the digital format. Will thaht be possible?
Respectfully Yours,
Henry Brooks
Jason Julius says
Sorry, my courses are only available in digital formats.
jack says
Hi Jason have to say I loved the videos and for myself being a Nemfo I didn’t know if a couple of the techniques that you and Had demonstrated in them but I have a very hard and complex question to ask so here it goes my wife that I love dearly has had some trouble in bed you too having 2c sections and the trouble is that he gets numb very quickly and it becomes very an enjoyable for both of us do too her not having the pleasure and me not seeing her have pleasure so my question is is there anything I can do 2 keep her from going numb so quickly a technique or items to buy
Charlie says
Hi Jason
Amazing stuff, my wife and I have had an awesome sexual relationship for around 28 years, but after her first squirt a little while ago our love making has become explosive.
Sarah says
The massage into stimulation technique helped me tremendously in achieving an EPIC series of full body squirting orgasms. My husband stopped counting after 40! Great advice! Thanks!!
Also wanted to add that when we skip the massage, I can still have awesome squirting orgasms, but it’s not nearly as good as with the massage! Put in the work, gentlemen! 😉
Me says
Have his testosterone levels checked, mine were very low probably for years
DB says
Hi Jason I bought your video to help my husband and I but i need suggestions he used to be crazy about sex and helping me he got sick and now i can’t get him interested and no he hasn’t found someone else he says its his medicines .help me its been 11 years this is abnormal he can’t get aroused at all i have tryed everything i know how thanks for your videos and your help any ideas.
little jo says
stop the drugs and he’ll get himself back again.
lien yung says
hey Jason i live in Taiwan; i have to say that: it really helps and thank you very much!
ralph says
DAMN RIGHT,,,,, THANKS…..
Pocy says
Hi JJ, my partner sure enjoy the new technique I have learnt from you. Thanks! However, she is trying to squirt. Hope to pick up more technique from you. Cheers!
M7 says
Hey Jason great article. That happen not long ago my beautiful muse had her 5-10 orgasms , And I was was getting her to another one, and out of the blue she said she had to pee!! I didn’t want to stop and told her its Ok But we stopped and guess what she didn’t go to the bathroom, that’s right! I’m pretty sure I got her to the brink of squirting’ and she just wouldn’t let go. So Jason I like this article Thank you and keep up the good work.
little jo says
tell her to empty her bladder before sex… This way she’ll be sure it aint (just)pee and she’ll be much more willing to let it go 😉
Josh says
Your stuff is awesome, when I hear my woman make orgasmic sounds, all I can think of is thanks for the knowledge Jason
Eliane says
That sounds amazing! It’s so simple that I think it could really work.
I really wanna try out one day, just need to find the guy to do it. 🙂
beast69 says
You better believe it. Jason is a mastermind, no doubt. This is only a drop in the bucket compared to what’s in the orgasm blueprint modules. Order-em, you’ll see.
Beast69. Thanks Jason.
La Dish says
Thank you.. For the lessons.. Though my husband isnt into do this I have learnwd to do it alone .. Alli can say is thank you..:)
Trouble says
Ok as a woman how can I use this material for both my partners, how do I get him to do any of this to me and how do I encourage my other partner to take this past play time to real time. She likes to play but wont relax. I guess I the same way really. Well now that I think about it our whole group can have a hard time relaxing. We all like things a little rougher. So how can I inspier focus and relaxation in my group of 8? I have no problem squirting but a feel of the girls use one of your quotes, “I feel like I’m peeing”.
Randy Dixster says
The solution I would suggest is smoking or otherwise ingesting marijuana as part of foreplay. You won’t believe the intense feelings and warmth.
Ken says
I purchased Jason’s course, It was money well spent in my education in female orgasms. At one point I wasn’t gonna purchase the package because I thought I knew a lot from the videos, when really I DIDN’T know much. Thanks man keep up the good work!
Alex Morin says
Hey Jason your my role model much love bro keep up the awesome work
Brian says
I too have purchased Jason’s course. I am single and have more than one woman say that I am the best lover they have ever had. Didn’t hear that much before. Well worth the investment.
Mike says
Thanks for all your help. I was fascinated by making my wife squirt. I found your site, subscribed and became a student. we have achieved it on many occassions. She doesn’t have that groundbreaking one that is discribed nor does she shoot accross the room. She more just dribbles it out. If you have any suggestions on how to make it better and stronger, hit me up. Thanks Jason!
Jason Julius says
Does she do “Kegel Exercises”? If not show her how to do them they should help with having a more powerful squirting orgasm…
I have a blog post about them here: https://jasonjulius.wpengine.com/kegel-exercises-for-women/
Trouble says
Hello Mike,
Yes always Kegel but for one of my female partners its a matter of her mind set and over all mood. If I catch her on a good night and I have touched her right she will as you say, “dribble”. She allowed herself to do that. She is happy to have given me that. But on nights when It’s all about her and she really lets go I can get her to shoot me in the face and farther! Time, Kegel, trust, skill, honest communication and putting her needs or fedishes first will allow her to open up to you a lot more! Just remember we are not all the same! We all respond diffrently. Try diffrent things. Ask questions laugh together. You will find everything just right one night and she will blow for you. Time and play.
little jo says
seems professional squirters use to drink a lot before a session. It makes sense, as the fluid has to build up in the female prostate, and that comes with a good hydratation. Make sure to empty the bladder before acting tho’…
Chris says
I also bought the course a year ago and it was the best investement ever.
Keep up the great work Jason!
Meff says
Great stuff. Will definitely try it out. Thanks Jason !
Adrian says
I bought Jason’s course over a year ago. One of the best purchases I’ve ever made!! My girl friend will now actually tell me “no more orgasms” as she’s lying eyes crossed and quivering like a lump of jelly on our bed. She loves what I can do for her and returns the favor. Works for me!!!
daniel mazie says
It really works,waoh wat an experience.I want to get ur daily mail.
Andrew says
Great advice Jason! I’m glad you’re still blogging.
Jason Julius says
Thanks…I’ll be trying to push out at least one new blog post a week.